Unifier 2017

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Two years ago I went out on a limb attending Unifier festival, a first of many experiences. I met my husband while canoeing to Blueberry Island. *romantic sigh*

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Unifier 2017 was a unique experience, more of a roots gathering than a festival. The event was intimately capped at 500 guests and was held at a smaller location, a one time decision while leadership finalized the purchase of Timber Trails in Tolland Massachusetts, Unifier’s now permanent land!

The limited guests meant that the consistent most core group of Unifier family was present. As if our gathering wasn’t sweet enough, this year there was a new closeness. I am so thankful for the time I got to spend with some of my favorite people! 

Since James and I and cats arrived via RV we did not camp but instead set up a space for our hammocks by the pond and used it to recharge, relax, and meet with friends.


The grounds were well kept and spotted with beautiful flower gardens and wooded areas. A beaver lived in the pond and would spend its days swimming around collecting rocks and sticks

 

The music was amazing, my faves were Kai Altair and Moon Hooch. Whether bopping with vendors or sneaking a dip in the pond, hearing the music echo over the land is my favorite part of festivals.

Shout out to Unalome Designs for having amazing hemp naturally dyed clothing. Your clothes are comfy and sexy, keep it coming.

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Hemp top by Unalome Designs
Hosting in the RV was quite fun as many of our friends wanted to come play with the cats and check out our mini home. James loves to cook for people so we walked around with a plate of tempeh dogs at one point.

And finally, one of the best surprises of all was playing with baby ducks. Yes, only at unifier.💛

#Firefly2017

This year we decided to go to Firefly on Friday and Sunday with Saturday being a rest day at the campground.

We arrived later in the day on Friday just as Weezer was finishing their set. I was surprised by how old they seemed as I had a reality check about the passing of time (okay). It was nice to hear their classic songs as everyone easily sang along.

Next Benny Benassi wowed us with his famous beats as we bounced under the colorful lights and giant balloons (obsessed).

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The next band was 21 Pilots. They put on a show of red white and black colors with loud shocking noises, twice what sounded like gunshots. Although I enjoyed hearing their music, I thought that they could improve their live performance skills and I thought the gunshot noises were unnecessary and could trigger someone, not cool. 

We finished up the night bopping to Flume. James did a tour of the food booths before we headed back to camp for the night. 

We returned again on Sunday for our favorite artist, Nahko and Medicine for the People. 

While waiting for Nahko to finish his sound check we watched tweets scroll by on the giant screen. I figured I would tweet something, even though they were mostly showing tweets from the day before, and guess what: they showed my tweet. I did not get a picture of the screen as it went by quickly and I spent most of the time trying to tell the guy behind us that he was on the screen too. 

 

Nahko played twice at Firefly this year. The first show was mid day on the Backyard stage. James and I knew we wanted to be front and center. With the sun blazing we rocked out to the medicine.

The evening show was a more acoustic set at the intimate treehouse stage. We had a laid back spot this time just chilling next to a tree.

We had the honor of visiting with our friend Max Ribner, the trumpet player for Nahko’s band, and he had a chance to meet James’ parents. We took a photo, still trying to get my paws on it. 

Finally we ended with a great show from Muse. They were professionals at live performance and keeping the flow going between songs with riffs and solos. The crowd really showed up for them and even still there was plenty of room on the lawn to sit close to the main stage. 

All in love I had a lovely time at Firefly festival. I’m not sure if I would go again unless my favorite artist were there, not because it was unpleasant but I tend to prefer more intentional gatherings with less garbage on the ground. 

Killens Pond Campground // Deleware

Killens Pond was our campground of choice during the weekend of Firefly festival.

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We arrived at night which left me unaware of my surroundings until morning. Nestled in the trees the RV sat while plugged in to water and electricity. There were bathrooms and hot showers in a building not far from our spot in section D. Just through the trees I could glimpse sparkles from the pond.

Killens Pond is circled by well maintained trails, a dock, and a boat launch. Kayaks and canoes can be rented nearby. The water is beautiful and brings a cool breeze into the campground.

Just a short walk from our spot James found chicken of the woods mushrooms, which are safe to eat if you like wild mushrooms. One night we got some firewood from the campground and cooked a meal over the fire.

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Asparagus, plantains, and green onions

I would highly recommend Killens Pond Campground. There were people with RVs and people with tents, and there are cabins to rent as well.

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I did some trail running in my Inkkas

Boondocking in Ocean City Maryland

Waking up at 5am unable to sleep, we decided to find a spot in Ocean City for the day. There was plenty of street parking and we found a free spot between 2nd and 3rd. It was a hot and uncomfortable morning, but as the sun rose in the sky and the breeze picked up, being parked in southern OC was quite refreshing. 

We were located an easy walking distance from the bay and couple blocks from the beach. We began the day with a splash in the ocean and then walked the boardwalk and perused the many shops. 


While James passed out during siesta I went for a walk around the block singing and playing with my hula hoop. I couldn’t be happier. Then I ordered some sushi and noodles from Tai Ji Sushi. Walking around beach towns and having everything I need within reach gives me such a high. I brought the food back to James and then I passed out for a nap in the loft with sweet sea breezes crossing over me. 


It was Senior week in Ocean City which is the week when graduating high school seniors celebrate their freedom with beach partying. It was fun to be in the center of the music and laughing from the youth. 


I used the freezer to create a chalk board calendar. Marking it with our location for the day and any activities we had planned. I particularly like how little is on it. Of course I also have a mental calendar that has daily tasks on it such as write blog, take care of the cats, and planning food and water for the day.❤️

Assateague Island

Upon reaching Assateague Island National Seashore, we drove straight for the dump station to clear our septic line. We are no longer using the original toilet due to the way it turns waste into toxic waste as oppose to what we prefer turning our waste into: usable compost. Along with the septic flush we also added fresh water to our tank. As we began to pull away from the dump station, the seemingly inevitable happened: we ran out of gas.

Our gas gauge is perhaps not broken beyond repair but it certainly not working. Because of this we are learning how much gas the tank can hold and for how many miles it will last us. We get between 7-8 miles to the gallon with our Jamboree.

So with an empty tank and AAA on the way, I decided to jump into the bay side to cool off. It was absolutely beautiful! The water was very warm and quite shallow. There were a few families around, not too many to seem busy but it was nice to feel sort of a safe vibe.

While I went swimming James prepared lunch. Waiting for help wasn’t so bad since we had activities to keep us busy. By the time we were filled up with gas and then settled in our parking spot everything for lunch had been prepped and just had to be cooked and assembled.

James cooking in the kitchen while I relax 
After lunch we headed to the ocean side of the island for a different experience. The ocean is only visible once crossing over the dunes, and the water is much cooler. The waves are significantly larger and the water becomes deeper much quicker. The day we went there were some people but it was not crowded.

One of the most amazing things about Assateague is the wild horses. Very rarely in the wild can you find horses like this. They walk among the campers and visitors and although it isn’t recommended to approach them, they may approach you. Here is a link to a video of them! 

First Trip// Atlantic City, NJ

It was finally time for us to pack up nearly all of our chosen belongings and the four kidtz (cat kids, it’s a thing okay) for our first real trip with the RV.


Starting from Hartford CT we traveled through Nyack for lunch and a stroll. Not to be distracted by its cuteness for long, we headed straight to Atlantic City where we found a flat spot next to some flowers and water to park next to for the night. James had tickets to see The Killers with his dad at the Borgata which they said was an amazing performance. After the show we had some drinks while playing the poker machine where we all took turns sending it our magic, then made our way to the café for an obligatory late meal.

Lunch in Nyack at Murasaki
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At the Borgata

The next morning we slowly started to move as we figured out a rhythm, but soon we were traveling South until we reached the Cape May Ferry, which we promptly boarded, kidtz and all.


Traveling with cats is super fun. Bringing them everywhere I go reminds me how much they enjoy doing fun things too! Tiffany likes to be in the driver’s seat and look out the window, Oliver likes the bed or under the bench, Adelé will flop anywhere, and Shiva can be found in my underwear basket during the heat of mid day.


Now we are spending a few days in Ocean City Maryland with my in-laws. It takes a few days to get used to being relaxed but taking the time to organize the space and eating enough food helps me to feel more at home.❤️

Full Moon Metta

Usually I leave the astrological genius to the Master StarMan, this Full Moon I have some advice, which is mostly for myself but I thought I would share anyway. Usually when I am going through something someone else somewhere is too. So here it goes. 

Full moons are illuminating. Turn the lights on full blast and even the darkest corners of your soul feel illuminated and bare. Sometimes being seen in full light can feel liberating and powerful, other times it can feel crummy and hurt your eyes. Seeing the truth to who we and others really are is sometimes not what we want revealed to us. 

My solution to the discomfort of being ablaze is lovingkindness metta: simple prayers uttered to align with love. I send them to myself and I send them to others. Especially to those who I am pissed off with.  Honestly this is one of the huge keys to happiness and to forgiveness. 

May I be filled with lovingkindness. 

May all beings everywhere be filled with lovingkindness. 

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The Power of Anal Penetration

The world would be an amazing place if everyone had anal sex. My favorite thing about anal penetration is it is inclusive because everyone has a butt! Even if you don’t think of yourself as the type to receive in that way, read on to see why I think it’s a good idea. 

It could be sex with a partner, solo playtimes, or deep ceremony. Either way, the opening of the root chakra is an opportunity that we can take advantage of physically. Most chakras are trapped inside the body but the first two chakras have very sensitive openings that we can tap into.

The first chakra is located by the anus, and the second chakra is located by the reproductive organs. During stimulation of the sacral chakra many have experienced the kundalini rising from sacral to crown in an energetic loop along the spine. This experience is powerful and can send one into the sexual dimension.

However if we stimulate the root chakra then the kundalini activation begins at the lowest chakra and then goes up to the crown. This kundalini awakening is seemingly much fuller and the energy opens in ways unlike any other. 

Sex isn’t the only way to stimulate and open the root chakra. Enemas and colonics are powerful energy clearings that have health benefits to go along. 

If you’re still reading, thank you! Topics like this are only taboo because we let it stay hidden in the shadows. If you are new to anal exploration, find a way that is most comfortable for you and be open to what might happen! If you have any thoughts to add to this topic I would love to hear them in the comments below. 

For more amazing information on mindful anal I found this article to be most friendly.😊

Peace and Serenity from Abusive Relationships and Toxic Interactions

For me having a zero bullshit policy is how I protect myself. This means that if I feel that anyone is messing with my energy as a means to trigger me into fight or flight mode, I choose to remove this energy from me.

This looks like unfriending people who troll and belittle my beliefs. Refusing to spend time with people who display habits of hurt, apologize, repeat. These cycles are harmful because they trick us into thinking that the healthy and loving traits that people have overpower the clearly unhealthy behavior that can sometimes be displayed.

If someone hurts me in repitition, even if they are sorry I must make the choice to walk away. If I stay in that position then I will only grow to resent myself and the other person for allowing the hurt to continue. I must empower myself in every moment to see that my inner peace is paramount.

The keener my intuition is, the stricter my no bullshit policy seems to get. More and more times I see how I have allowed energies around me to pull me down. I know my own strength and I must respect my limits. Sometimes the things that trigger me may seem small to someone else, and that is why I know what is best for myself, and you know what is best for you.

Sometimes I am tempted to allow these energies near me because I want to be kind, or because I am attracted to that which is different and seductive. Ultimately I know that everyone is on their perfect path, but this does not mean that I must be close to everyone in every moment. It is okay to take space from people. It does not mean that anyone is wrong or bad, it simply means that we are working on different things.

Doing my best means being aligned with my intuition. Trusting it strengthens my relationship to myself and I feel in harmony with my being. Isn’t this the peace that so many of us are looking for?❤️

Lake St George Maine

Although I rarely seek to travel North, when invited to a cabin in Maine for the weekend with friends I had to say yes. This was my first time entering into the land of lakes and loons, Maine’s native noisy bird.


After brunch in the cozy town of Belfast I went for a canoe ride with James. Paddling around the tiny islands and exploring the open waters is one of my favorite things to do.


We cooked over an open flame with a rigged grill system. Working together as a team we had one person fanning the flames, another cooking the food, as I happily watched with a baby on my lap. While we were cooking the sun set over the lake and it began to rain. The sky dripped with warm colors over the treescape. When the rains became to heavy and the impromptu tarp lean-to no longer sufficed, we gathered in the cabin by the warmth of the wood stove.

As I journey further south and chase the sun I doubt I will enter the state of Maine for a while. The experience that I had will carry me for a long time.❤️